Ukukhula kwezolimo kubonakala kugxilisa ezinganeni umuzwa wokuqina wokuzibusa nokuziphendulela, ngisho nangaphansi kweso elibukhali labazali bazo.
Umfundi ofunda esikoleni esiphakathi uphuma endlini ekukhanyeni kwangaphambi kokuntwela kokusa, usahlikihla ubuthongo emehlweni anegazi. Amabhulukwe akhe, lelo bhangqa aligqoke izolo, aluthuli ngaphezu kwe-denim kanti ezemidlalo ziyimbobo elingana ne-volleyball edolweni langakwesokunxele. I-hoodie yakhe eke yaba luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka manje sekunguthingo lwamabala amdaka nodaka, futhi umphetho webhasikidi lakhe elibomvu le-Red Sox seligobekile langena kuphrofayili wehhashi. Welula, uzamula, nezimpisi phansi kancane kwebhisikidi alinikwe ngumama wakhe lapho ephuma emnyango. Ngemuva kwalokho uphumela ngaphandle esondweni elidala lamasondo amane aphume ayobeka amashubhu amasiphon ensimini yebhunge.
Khonamanjalo, amamayela amathathu phansi komgwaqo, i-freckle-faced, sitrobheli blond sophomore lapho abalandeli bethu besikole samabanga aphakathi iRed Sox fan pines bachithe isonto lakhe lesonto uKeds bethanda amaMucks afika emadolweni. Udonsa i-ponytail ngemuva kwekhanda lakhe lebhola elijuluke ngokujuluka. Umnyango wesikrini uyavalwa, futhi, ehlikihla izandla zakhe ndawonye ukuze athole imfudumalo, uphumela ngaphandle esibayeni sethole ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi umntwana uHolsteins obekwe ngaphansi kwesandla sakhe uthola isidlo sasekuseni esimnandi.
Ngaphesheya kwesifunda, ingane ejabule eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala ihlala ngokuziqhenya esihlalweni somngane kaJohn Deere, ejabule kakhulu ukuthi ichitha utshani besivuno sesibili sesivuno nomkhulu.
Abazalwane ababili, abaneminyaka engu-15 no-12 ubudala, baqubuka emgwaqeni we-washboardy canal, bekhala ngokumiswa kweDodge endala (noma ukungabi bikho kwayo). Yize behlala ngokuqinile ezansi kwepulazi lezimoto nobuchwepheshe be-totem pole, bathola induduzo ngesiqinisekiso sokuthi amaphuphu amba abafana abakwazi ukushayela induku, ngakho-ke lokhu kuzokhokha ngolunye usuku.
Ngasinye salezi yisimo esijwayelekile ezweni lepulazi. Kusukela ngesikhathi izingane zasepulazini zifunda ukuhamba, iningi lazo likhona lapho eceleni kukaMama noma uBaba, zifunda izintambo, zidla ukungcola, futhi ngethemba lokuthi angiphindi amagama amaningi kakhulu e-cuss. Heck, ngake ngezwa ngomama efaka okupholile ngamabhodlela agcwele ubisi futhi ebopha ibhande le-carseat elolini elinamasondo ayi-10 ngoba omunye wabashayeli besikhathi sokuvuna kwakumele akhokhe ibheyili ngomzuzu wokugcina.
Emindenini esepulazini, Letha Ingane Yakho emsebenzini akusilo nje isikwele esisodwa kukhalenda; kuxhomeke eduze nsuku zonke. Futhi akuzona nje izingane ezisizakala ngakho. Ukukhuluma iqiniso, amabhizinisi amaningi asepulazini angaba ngumfudlana uma izingane zingafiki zizosebenza nabazali bazo njalo.
Izingane zingakhononda ngomsebenzi njengoba zikhula (ngiyaqiniseka). Kepha njengoba bethola ngisho Endala (njengokuthi, yisho, 20), ukwazisa ngesisa kubeka ezinhliziyweni zabo ngemfundo engokoqobo abayithole eminyakeni yabo yokukhula.
Ukukhula kwezolimo kubonakala kugxilisa ezinganeni umuzwa wokuqina wokuzibusa nokuziphendulela, ngisho nangaphansi kweso elibukhali labazali bazo.
Nginenkolelo engaguquguquki yokuthi wonke umuntu emhlabeni udinga ukuba nomsebenzi olusizi noma emibili empilweni yakhe. Manje, angisho ukuthi uma usebenza endaweni ethile nomphathi okuhlukumezayo noma lapho yonke imicabango oyivezayo yamukelwa ngokugconwa kuphela, kufanele uhlale lapho ukuze ufunde isifundo esingaqondakali mayelana nokungqongqoza kanzima. Kepha kunenani elingenakuphikwa, elingenakulinganiswa ngomuntu osemusha ekufikeni ekhaya ebusuku cishe ekhathele kakhulu ukuthi angama eshaweni futhi akhuhle ifilimu yokungcola futhi aphume ezandleni zakhe.
Iqiniso liyatshelwa, imvamisa imisebenzi enjengaleyo lapho okwakhiwa khona ubungani obuqine kakhulu nezinkumbulo ezimnandi kakhulu. Kungakhathaleki ukuthi kuhamba izintambo zezandla noma kwakhiwe imigqomo yokusanhlamvu, amatafula okugibela amabhasi noma ukubhukuda phansi, ukususa ukhula imibhede yezimbali noma ukhaphethi wokuhlanza, leyo ndawo yomsebenzi kwi-CV ayinakutholakala. Imindeni yasepulazini isilungele ukuhlinzeka ngamathuba anjalo ezinganeni zayo, ngokubambisana nabasebenza nabo ababaluleke kakhulu abazoba nabo: inyama negazi labo.
Ukukhula kwezolimo kubonakala kugxilisa ezinganeni umuzwa wokuqina wokuzibusa nokuziphendulela, njengoba nje kungenzeka ukuthi zichitha isikhathi sabo esiningi ngaphansi kweso elibukhali labazali babo kunontanga yabo. Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi isikweletu esiningi kufanele siye kubazali basemapulazini noma epulazini uqobo, kepha lo mkhuba ukhona impela. Kuyisibusiso esikhulu kamuva empilweni ukuthi ngifunde ngisemncane izifundo ezinjengalezi:
- Kwesinye isikhathi izinto kufanele zenziwe nje, noma ngabe ufuna ukukwenza noma cha;
- Uhulumeni ngaso sonke isikhathi uzothatha isinqamu seholo lakho;
- Imisebenzi engemnandi ayimnandi emoyeni opholile wasekuseni kunaphansi kwelanga lantambama elingenasihe;
- Akunandaba ukuthi omunye umuntu emhlabeni ucabangani ngomsebenzi wakho; futhi, mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu,
- Amatshwele ayamba ngempela abafana abakwazi ukushayela induku.
Kumele ube kwangenwa ukuze ngibhale.